Feeling of Hatred does more harm to you….
Good morning friends,
Someone, to you, has done some wrong,
And a feeling of revenge is overwhelming.
You can’t get over it, it feels very strong,
Inside your body, like a fire, it is burning.
The act by your bete noire did little harm,
But your hatred is indeed cause for alarm.
Hatred is just the opposite of the feeling of Love,
Its aim is only to cause immense destruction.
Whilst the elements support you as a dove,
When you are a hawk, they cause obstruction.
I don’t suppose about it there is an argument,
That Hatred is like self-imposed punishment.
But how can you make his for his sins pay?
Surely, he needs to be told right from wrong;
He should have done better than to go astray,
And plunge into his despicable action headlong.
So be it if you are to be the agent of God,
But, the feeling of Hatred is still flawed.
Love unfailingly achieves more than Hatred,
There are really no limits to its amazing powers;
It is blessed by God, it is divine and sacred,
Your way is not thorny but paved with flowers.
Try to assimilate Love in everyday life,
And see how gradually you cut out strife.
….than to the object of Hate.
We are born as human beings with attributes of the Supreme Lord which are Peace, Love, Compassion and Care.
Anything opposite to these is against our natural self and a source of angst within and cause of disequilibrium in the Mind, which hurts us as long. Being born positive, any negative emotion to start with Envy, right up to Hate at an extreme, remain constant disturbance for our mind.
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Trying to hurt someone who has hurt us is like allowing him/her to hurt us longer.
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A common example of often cited is that before a match stick burns up something else, it burns its own face first.
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Anger ( क्रोध in Hindi) is 2nd greatest ailment after Lust (काम in Hindi), in the series of greed लोभ, attachment मोह, and ego अहंकार
Hate, very clearly is extreme negative outcome of anger
Can be equated to a fish out of water as far as the person who hates another, is concerned.
पांच विकार महा दुखदाई जले सकल संसारा ।
परमार्थ प्रतीत बिन नहीं जीत पाए निस्तारा ।।
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If you are angry count 10 before speaking and if you are very angry count hundred.
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Otherwise Hate generate hate in the other person’s mind and thought too and is very similar to trying to extinguish the Fire by pouring Ghee into it.
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Meditation is a very positive way of countering the negative emotions,
by bringing equanimity in the thinking and Peace to the disurbed Mind,
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And if it is done with the AUM, Natural Frequency of the Universe,
it helps in multiple ways,
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gsQnGE7Hi4A
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Or Seed word blessed by a realised Soul, the progress is the fastest.
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We mortal beings are full of haume (ego) which all identify us as an individual with individual traits and inability to see everyone and everything as wholesome. As you have mentioned above our Gurus have …………,……in fact Guru Nanak and his successors were not only our Gurus but they were Gurus of entire world /universe known or known to us but they knew everything beyond iota of doubt from their origin/creation onwards. They not only could see but had first hand knowledge of the universe. Whereas we are unableable to see even ourselves clearly for sure. For example 5thGuru Arjan Dev Ji says: ਇਕਾ ਸੰਗਤ ਇਕ ਗਰਹ ਵਸਤੇ ਮਿਲ ਵਾਤ ਨਾ ਕਰਤੇ ਭਾਈ। ਵਿਚ ਪਰਦਾ ਹੌਮੇ ਪਾਈ। The creator and soul are residing within our body but don’t talk to each other because there is curain of ego between two. We don’t listen to the unstruck celestial music( ਅਨਹਦ ਸਬਦ ਧੁਨੀ ) ringing within us. Very overwhelming majority even don’t know this fact though they read in Gurbani and religious/ spiritual scriptures but don’t believe in it in real sense. Then how can we mortal listen to another point of view? Again ego plays a very vital role. When we mortal beings get confronted with real situation we mostly all except very 2 few and negligible in number fail in test which otherwise looks very simple. Only those souls who are blessed by that creative power can withstand the test of time and are able to understand and comply with the saying of Gurus.
In fact All known Gurus (masters) of the past, present have taught the same teaching and future masters Gurus of that status and calibre would also teach same eternal truth. Truly speaking the teachings/message and life of Guru Nanak and his successors meant for the entire civilization of this globe has not been rightly carried and spread across all the contents as it should have been on its merit and recognition it deserved. That’s why guru sahibaans have also said it kotan me kou jo harnarayan ko cheet. ( There is one out of 10 million who remembers him truthfully without asking any worldly comfort/possession.. So mortals are confused until and unless he bless them to understand and catch him. Otherwise we all get carried away under the sway of mind.
Thanks for thought provoking writing and sharing. Regards
Correction to above post—Read continents for contents after spread across all the ………
So many typographical errors are made by me as smartphone picks up the words on its own. Unfortunately and sadly I don’t read prior transmitting as I feel bit difficult to read the entire draft all over again. Indeed it is a bad habit i realise it but please bear with m e. Thanks